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Ready to get married the halal way? Find your other half on SOK Match: https://sokmatch.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description&utm_campaign=marriage-qna&utm_content=qna-marriage-23 What are the do's and don'ts of mahr? Can a woman ask for a property? Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan tells of a brother whose prospect's family asked for an unbelievable amount; his advice was run away, but the brother had already married and gone into debt. If they put a lot on you, there is so much fish in the sea and so many sisters still unmarried who would fit you. Never put yourself in hardship, and sisters, never put him in hardship. Marry someone who makes it easy. From the Marriage Q&A session of SOK Academy with SOK Match. 📖 https://www.sokacademy.com (online academy) : Courses taught by Sheikh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan following the literature of the prominent scholars of Islamic history 📱Social Media of Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan حفظه الله : https://linktr.ee/gardenofilm What are the do's and don'ts when it comes to mahr? Can women ask for things like a property? There was a brother that once told me what the family wanted and what the sister wanted. And it was a lot, a lot of money, something unbelievable. My advice to him was, run away, run away. He said, no, but we already got married and so on, like they put him in debt and so on for this. Do you understand my answer? If they're putting something that is a lot on you, there is so much fish in the sea. There are so many better sisters. Allāhumma bārik, Everybody there is someone who's better than him. So many of the sisters that are Allāhumma bārik, still not married and they fit, inshaAllah, they would fit you. Simple as that. Simple as that. Never put yourself in hardship, no matter what. And you as a sister, never put him in hardship. If you're not like that, then اللهُ المُسْتَعَانُ. But I would say, I would never recommend to anybody that when it comes to mahr and the marriage expenses, that he puts himself in a tough situation because of them increasing and making it more difficult on him. No, marry somebody that's going to ease for you and not cause hardship. Seek knowledge for free with us live: https://www.sokacademy.com/live?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description&utm_campaign=marriage-qna&utm_content=qna-marriage-23 #Mahr #Marriage #QandA #SOKAcademy #AbdulAzizAlHaqqan
