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📖 Study with Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan, live and free: https://www.sokacademy.com/live?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description&utm_campaign=qna63&utm_content=qna63-c17 Many women today clash head on with the husband, and Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan calls it a product of heavy westernisation. Ask how our grandmothers were: calm. They were called the tender heart, because they were expansive, they took everyone in and calmed everyone. Why aren't you the tender one who brings everybody down? You will get rid of a lot of stress yourself. Two masculine energies in one house go in separate directions. Calm them down. From the 63rd Q&A session of SOK Academy. 📖 https://www.sokacademy.com (online academy) : Courses taught by Sheikh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan following the literature of the prominent scholars of Islamic history 📱Social Media of Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan حفظه الله : https://linktr.ee/gardenofilm But subḥānAllāh of this day and age, I see many women subḥānAllāh are, are, are very head-on clashing with, with, with the husband, this, I think this is a product of the westernization heavily, heavily. If we look at our, our mothers, our grandmothers and them talking about how their mothers were, how were they? Tell me, all of you tell me, how were they? They were calm. They, they, they call them, الصَّدْرُ الْحَنُونُ. They say what? They, they are the tender hearts. Why they are the tender heart? Because they're expansive. They, they take everybody in, they calm everyone. They're so tender that they, Tayyib? Nowadays it's the opposite, إِلَّا مَنْ رَحِمَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ. Nowadays it's always clash, clash and this westernized thinking that is this so destructive. Why aren't you the tender one that brings everybody down? By the way, don't think. And now if you say this, they say what? They say, this is too much. It's stress. Why? If you actually, if you actually achieve such a thing, you, you yourself will, will, will get rid of a lot of stress by the way. SubḥānAllāh, naʿam, masculine energy. أَحْسَنْتُمْ. That's, that's the word. Masculine, so much masculine energy. Two men at the house is not going to work. You, you're putting two positives. They're going to, to, to, to go in separate directions. Calm them down. Seek knowledge for free with us live: https://www.sokacademy.com/live?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description&utm_campaign=qna63&utm_content=qna63-c17 #Marriage #QandA #MuslimWife #SOKAcademy #AbdulAzizAlHaqqan
