Book a Girlfriend for Marriage | Clip | Abu Mussab Wajdi Akkari

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Is a girlfriend really the way to "prepare" for marriage? 🛑 In this video, we tackle a tough situation: what do you do when you're trying to live a pious life, but your own mother is urging you to get a girlfriend first? We break down why the concept of a "girlfriend" has no place in Islam and why the focus should always be on finding a righteous spouse. We also discuss: ✅ Why 18 is NOT too young to get married. ✅ The cultural definitions vs. Islamic principles. ✅ How society trains us to delay marriage while normalizing Haram relationships. ✅ The "gold digger" trap and squandering money on girlfriends vs. investing in a wife. If you’re a young man trying to stay on the right path despite pressure from family or society, this one is for you. Let's go straight to the Nikah. 💍 Timecodes: 0:00 - The pressure to get a girlfriend 0:20 - Why we choose a wife, not a girlfriend 0:32 - Where do you find a girlfriend? 1:10 - Does a mother's love lead to Hell? 1:33 - Is 18 too young for marriage? 2:13 - The cost of girlfriends vs. marriage #OneWayToParadise #IslamicMarriage #HalalLiving #MuslimYouth #MarriageInIslam #Dawah #PiousLife Clip from: #11 Zaad Al-Ma'aad by Imaam Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله https://www.youtube.com/live/iTL02dmKfgQ?si=K1y6_fT6bHgnmu1n