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Ready to get married the halal way? Find your other half on SOK Match: https://sokmatch.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description&utm_campaign=marriage-qna&utm_content=qna-marriage-14 Ask at this time: what do you do in your free time? Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan: a sister who does not want a gamer should ask, or she ends up with someone who plays all night. If it is a no-go for you, say no. If you both like it, it can make the relationship very strong, like two students of knowledge studying together or two good cooks. Things in common strengthen the bond, as long as it is not haram, a waste of time, or keeping you from an obligation. From the Marriage Q&A session of SOK Academy with SOK Match. 📖 https://www.sokacademy.com (online academy) : Courses taught by Sheikh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan following the literature of the prominent scholars of Islamic history 📱Social Media of Ustadh AbdulAziz Al-Haqqan حفظه الله : https://linktr.ee/gardenofilm That's why you need to ask at this time. Ask her. What do you do for free time? A sister, for example, she doesn't want somebody who plays video games. And she doesn't ask him. And he's someone that plays video games all night. Ask him, do you play video games? If that's a no-go for you, then no, don't marry somebody that... But if you like video games and you're going to play with him, you have that something in common, that can make your relationship very strong. If you're a student of knowledge, and he's a student of knowledge, and both of you study, and you want to study together, this strengthens your bond. And when you want to relax, both of you are good cooks, for example, this strengthens the bond, you have things in common. And even if it was playing or something else, it's absolutely fine. Not a problem. As long as it doesn't fall into something that is haram, or it wastes your time and moves you away from something, that is obligatory. Seek knowledge for free with us live: https://www.sokacademy.com/live?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description&utm_campaign=marriage-qna&utm_content=qna-marriage-14 #Marriage #Compatibility #QandA #SOKAcademy #AbdulAzizAlHaqqan